How is it that we get to a point in our lives where we look back and remember only the good….I guess that’s what gives us hope when we’re in the middle of turmoil! Things can change so rapidly in the blink of an eye and we can’t really do anything about it…why is life like this??? It this how it’s supposed to be? One moment happiness and the next sadness? Can we ever find true happiness does it really exist?
I have been asking myself these questions lately and here is what I've come up with.
Yes we are supposed to remember only the god or better said we want to only remember the god to feel accomplished and to feel like we just haven’t wasted our lives… this also gives us hope when we’re going through something, it allows us to look back and see that those happy feelings we once felt always happened right after a storm. Why do things change so rapidly? It’s simple that’s how time world one second you’re here and the next you’re somewhere else. Imagine a life where everything was the same how boring would that be. People wouldn’t feel passion and everything would be done in a repetitive way. Even though one moment we’re up and the next down this allows us to learn from it and to keep on going. It makes life interesting and worth living. The uncertainty and mystery of what tomorrow will be bring its what carries us through the day. That hope that tomorrow will bring something better.
In my eyes happiness is feeling happy with yourself with everything you do doesn’t matter how important or unimportant. Happiness is looking at a child’s eyes and seeing them joyful happiness is the pure and naïve love between a couple…Happiness is wherever you want to find it, its all around us exposed in a million of little ways.
& as i say be simple, be classy but most of all be unique!
Dayi <3
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Monday, December 14, 2009
Is dating younger woman trendy or just old news?
Hey,
So what is it with older men wanting to date younger women? Is it the “I’m old and not attractive so let me prove myself issue” phase or is it that “young” is more attractive. What do younger women have that older woman don’t and what do they have that make men go crazy?
So here is my theory! Yes probably younger woman are obviously young DUH , fit, more active and therefore more attractive (in men eyes). So are they really that superficial that they don’t see the immaturity and child like personality behind the tight butt and the big boobs. Do they really not see the maturity, smartness, interesting qualities older women have not to mention that mysterious thing about them. Do men not see this??? Maybe is just the fact that most of them are artificial, show offs, obviously not so smart which are mostly attributes of men with low self esteem.
Now not all of them are the same. I have separated them into 3 different types.
-There are the ones who when young never got the chance to get the girl they wanted whether it was because of their lack of charm, ugliness, lack of money, unintelligence etc. And are now trying to prove themselves by going out with a 20 year old that’s probably with them for their money. This are usually men who brag a lot who like to buy fast, shiny sports cars to compensate for their lack of brain. Also man who value more money than family and love although deep inside are really longing for someone who’s there for them through thick and thin.
-The second type is the” I feel so alone and I can’t find anyone better so ill go out with a “child”. These types are usually really immature men who can’t hold up a 3 minute intelligent conversation with any women. Mediocre, underachievers who still probably live at home type of men.
-Finally those who actually enjoy the company of young women because it makes them feel young again and like they can still contribute something to this world. These usually are very alike to the first type. Although are more compassionate and family oriented.
The whole point is all these man or most of them at least have absolutely nothing in their head. Now, I’m not judging anyone …this is a 20 year old opinion. Also I’m not saying that there are the occasional great love story that involves younger women with an older man as in Sex and the city. Yeah I know it’s a movie and it’s fictional but I do believe love like that exists in real life. Don’t get me wrong many young girls are very mature etc but come one at our age (20-25) are we really looking to spend the rest of our lives with an old man who is probably more appropriate for him to have grandchildren instead of children. Open your eyes and see the beauty that comes with age. Just like the wine it gets better as it ages. And to the ladies (older woman) hope some more your prince charming is on their way probably lost dating younger women but don’t worry they will eventually find their way!
YOU CHOOSE???
& as i say be simple, be hot but most of all be unique!
Dayi <3
So what is it with older men wanting to date younger women? Is it the “I’m old and not attractive so let me prove myself issue” phase or is it that “young” is more attractive. What do younger women have that older woman don’t and what do they have that make men go crazy?
So here is my theory! Yes probably younger woman are obviously young DUH , fit, more active and therefore more attractive (in men eyes). So are they really that superficial that they don’t see the immaturity and child like personality behind the tight butt and the big boobs. Do they really not see the maturity, smartness, interesting qualities older women have not to mention that mysterious thing about them. Do men not see this??? Maybe is just the fact that most of them are artificial, show offs, obviously not so smart which are mostly attributes of men with low self esteem.
Now not all of them are the same. I have separated them into 3 different types.
-There are the ones who when young never got the chance to get the girl they wanted whether it was because of their lack of charm, ugliness, lack of money, unintelligence etc. And are now trying to prove themselves by going out with a 20 year old that’s probably with them for their money. This are usually men who brag a lot who like to buy fast, shiny sports cars to compensate for their lack of brain. Also man who value more money than family and love although deep inside are really longing for someone who’s there for them through thick and thin.
-The second type is the” I feel so alone and I can’t find anyone better so ill go out with a “child”. These types are usually really immature men who can’t hold up a 3 minute intelligent conversation with any women. Mediocre, underachievers who still probably live at home type of men.
-Finally those who actually enjoy the company of young women because it makes them feel young again and like they can still contribute something to this world. These usually are very alike to the first type. Although are more compassionate and family oriented.
The whole point is all these man or most of them at least have absolutely nothing in their head. Now, I’m not judging anyone …this is a 20 year old opinion. Also I’m not saying that there are the occasional great love story that involves younger women with an older man as in Sex and the city. Yeah I know it’s a movie and it’s fictional but I do believe love like that exists in real life. Don’t get me wrong many young girls are very mature etc but come one at our age (20-25) are we really looking to spend the rest of our lives with an old man who is probably more appropriate for him to have grandchildren instead of children. Open your eyes and see the beauty that comes with age. Just like the wine it gets better as it ages. And to the ladies (older woman) hope some more your prince charming is on their way probably lost dating younger women but don’t worry they will eventually find their way!
YOU CHOOSE???
& as i say be simple, be hot but most of all be unique!
Dayi <3
Friday, December 11, 2009
My very first post!
Hello world,
Well hello :) and welcome into my day to day life. My name is Dayana and I have been wanting to start writing for a while now. Since i have such and advance A.D.D (or so I say) I will start blogging and hopefully finish my book someday :) Well here's a bit about me....Im cuban, 20 yrs old and my biggest goal in this presice moment would be to finish FIU and start lawschool.
Now getting down to business. What is this blog about you might ask? Well is simply my perception and opinions about life and what happens to me (which believe me you will get quite a few laughs) everyday. Come and join me as we walk daily in my heels
Thats enough for today hope you guys enjoy my little introduction.
& as i say be simple, be hot but most of all be unique!
Dayi <3
Well hello :) and welcome into my day to day life. My name is Dayana and I have been wanting to start writing for a while now. Since i have such and advance A.D.D (or so I say) I will start blogging and hopefully finish my book someday :) Well here's a bit about me....Im cuban, 20 yrs old and my biggest goal in this presice moment would be to finish FIU and start lawschool.
Now getting down to business. What is this blog about you might ask? Well is simply my perception and opinions about life and what happens to me (which believe me you will get quite a few laughs) everyday. Come and join me as we walk daily in my heels
Thats enough for today hope you guys enjoy my little introduction.
& as i say be simple, be hot but most of all be unique!
Dayi <3
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