So what is it with older men wanting to date younger women? Is it the “I’m old and not attractive so let me prove myself issue” phase or is it that “young” is more attractive. What do younger women have that older woman don’t and what do they have that make men go crazy?
So here is my theory! Yes probably younger woman are obviously young DUH , fit, more active and therefore more attractive (in men eyes). So are they really that superficial that they don’t see the immaturity and child like personality behind the tight butt and the big boobs. Do they really not see the maturity, smartness, interesting qualities older women have not to mention that mysterious thing about them. Do men not see this??? Maybe is just the fact that most of them are artificial, show offs, obviously not so smart which are mostly attributes of men with low self esteem.
Now not all of them are the same. I have separated them into 3 different types.
-There are the ones who when young never got the chance to get the girl they wanted whether it was because of their lack of charm, ugliness, lack of money, unintelligence etc. And are now trying to prove themselves by going out with a 20 year old that’s probably with them for their money. This are usually men who brag a lot who like to buy fast, shiny sports cars to compensate for their lack of brain. Also man who value more money than family and love although deep inside are really longing for someone who’s there for them through thick and thin.
-The second type is the” I feel so alone and I can’t find anyone better so ill go out with a “child”. These types are usually really immature men who can’t hold up a 3 minute intelligent conversation with any women. Mediocre, underachievers who still probably live at home type of men.
-Finally those who actually enjoy the company of young women because it makes them feel young again and like they can still contribute something to this world. These usually are very alike to the first type. Although are more compassionate and family oriented.
The whole point is all these man or most of them at least have absolutely nothing in their head. Now, I’m not judging anyone …this is a 20 year old opinion. Also I’m not saying that there are the occasional great love story that involves younger women with an older man as in Sex and the city. Yeah I know it’s a movie and it’s fictional but I do believe love like that exists in real life. Don’t get me wrong many young girls are very mature etc but come one at our age (20-25) are we really looking to spend the rest of our lives with an old man who is probably more appropriate for him to have grandchildren instead of children. Open your eyes and see the beauty that comes with age. Just like the wine it gets better as it ages. And to the ladies (older woman) hope some more your prince charming is on their way probably lost dating younger women but don’t worry they will eventually find their way!
YOU CHOOSE???
& as i say be simple, be hot but most of all be unique!
Dayi <3
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